Online dating has become one of the most popular ways of meeting other singles. If you’ve never tried it, now is a great time to start. And if you’re not finding what you want on the mainstream sites, niche dating is a great option for you.
Are you interested in joining a dating site catered towards dating Latino men and Latina women? This is a great option – but keep in mind that many niche dating sites don’t offer as many candidates to search through as the more mainstream, popular sites do. But they do offer a lot of choice for like-minded people.
Following are some tips for getting started:
Know what you want. Before you begin using a Latin online dating site (or any site for that matter), focus on what kind of experience you want. Do you want a site with the most Latino men or Latina women to choose from? Are you looking for someone religious, or not religious? Are you open to meeting people in other cities? Are you looking for long-term romance, or just a fling or friendship? These are important questions, and will help you in choosing a site and crafting your profile so you attract the type of men or women you want.
Do some research. It’s important to check reviews of different sites, as well as trying them out. Most sites offer a free trial period so you can get a feel for how it works. Some Latin dating sites are not online dating sites but more like mail-order bride sites, so be sure you read the fine print before you pay a lot of money.
Post pictures. Most online daters want to see pictures of potential dates before they decide to send an email or communicate in any way. If you don’t post a picture, other daters will assume you’re hiding something – like your age or your body type or whether or not you’re single. Be sure to post a full body shot as well as a headshot. And stick to using photos taken in the past year, not earlier. Don’t be afraid to play up your assets – if you have curves, show them off!
Be truthful. When you go through the sign up process on any dating website, they usually ask questions and have you create a brief profile about yourself. Be truthful about who you are and what you want, so there aren’t misunderstandings between you and your dates. If you want to only date Catholics, then say so. If you’re 5’ 4”, then don’t fudge your height. You don’t want to start dating somebody who has the wrong impression of you.
Are you branching out? While you might be focused on dating only Latinas from El Salvador or Peru, or Latina women with a certain body or skin type, I suggest you widen your search. While it’s understandable to be choosy and know exactly what you want, sometimes you rule out some great candidates because you’re being too specific in an online search. Why not meet more rather than less people, and see if you connect?
Have fun!
Whether you’re looking for a Brazilian, Puerto Rican, Argentinean or other Latin ethnicity in your search for love, you’ll find a lot of niche dating websites catering to this specific clientele. The most important aspect of your search is to know what tools are available to help you. And the best place to start is to know the type of relationship you want – whether you want to casually date a lot of people or you’re looking for someone special.
Following are some tools and tips for how to take advantage of all the great features on different Latin dating sites:
Photos
When you first start using an online dating site, it’s important to upload some good, recent photos and post your own profile before reaching out to others. Many people refuse to respond unless they know what you look like, and besides, you don’t want to look like you’re hiding something – like a spouse! Don’t post just one – post a few so that people looking at your profile will get a better idea of what you look like, and are more likely to reach out.
Be upfront about what you want.
This doesn’t mean listing all the beautiful features you want in a woman or man, but listing what kind of relationship you want. If you only want to date casually, then state it so the people you date are on the same page as you. For instance, “looking for fun and friendship” or whatever you want to say instead of “looking for that special person in my life,” so you’re not misleading anyone. There’s no point in hiding what you want.
Join Latin groups.
Some Latin dating sites offer groups you can join, which are basically big chat rooms to see if you hit it off with anyone who likes the same things. Some sites even offer the capability for you to set up a blog, so you can show a little more of who you are and what kind of sense of humor you have. If blogging is a little much for you, many sites offer forums where you can talk to other members and get advice. These are great tools, depending on what makes you feel comfortable.
Translation services.
Is your Spanish not so good? Don’t let that turn you away – many Latin dating sites like Latin American Cupid offer translation services when you type in a message, so you can communicate freely with other members. This isn’t just for your profile or emails – some offer chat room translations so you can be more spontaneous.
Dating Safety and security.
It’s important to not share any personal or financial information with members of any online dating site. Many Latin dating sites take this step to warn their members, but some do not. Also, some sites that call themselves “Latin dating sites” are really more like mail-order-bride sites. Be very careful you read and understand everything before putting down your credit card to join.
Videos.
Not really a writer? Some Latin dating sites offer the ability to post a video profile if you come across better in person than on the page. There’s also video chat, so you can talk face-to-screen with other members before meeting in person.